• Violet

Dear Broken-Hearted Girl

I know your pain. ❤️‍🩹⁣


I know your sadness. I know how sleep feels better than waking up to the realization that the one you love is not there. ⁣😔




I see how you hide behind concealer, mascara, lipstick💄and blush. I see how you fake a smile and say “I’m great” when your insides ache constantly from a gaping empty wound. ⁣🥺

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I know how bad it hurts to live in a world 🌎 that continues day in and day out and somehow all you feel is trapped in moments of a happy past that you recycle and replay over and over in your head. ⁣💭

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I know the lack of appetite… and the overeating 🍴to stuff yourself so that you fill that dark void. It sucks. It really hurts. It tears you apart to hear their name 😣 and it hurts more to know they’ve moved on and here you are still reflecting on the “coulda, shoulda, wouldas.”⁣ 😓

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𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐫? ⁣

Well I guess life has a way of teaching you through pain, and heartache is one of the worst. If this is you, know this: ⁣

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1) I promise you the pain will end. I mean it. ⁣🙏🏻

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2) I promise your heart will heal.⁣ ❤️

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3) I promise the journey will be hard. ⁣😏

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4) But I also know it will be worth it. ⁣😌

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5) Pain will teach you many things. ⁣📝

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6) The more you fill yourself up with loving experiences, supportive people and deep inner work, the faster you will heal and stronger you’ll become. ⁣💪🏻

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7) No matter where you go, you will take yourself and your mind with you. Make sure you notice the thoughts you repeat in your mind. Choose more loving ones because you’re listening!⁣ 👂🏼


8) Only you know deep down the “right way.⁣”⁣ 😘

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9) Everyone will have an opinion and will judge you, your decisions and your feelings… 😏 and guess what - no one else in this entire world matters because at the end of the day it is your one and only previous life. Others will only see tiny perspectives but no one will never fully know or understand the full puzzle. Let them judge. Keep doing what you need to do. ⁣⁣

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10) Spend time alone. 🌅 Reconnect with your inner child. Listen to her desires. Rekindle those creative hobbies you once loved. They’re still there!!⁣⁣ 🎨🥾🏊🏻‍♀️🚲🚉⛺️👩🏻‍🍳📚

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11) Play that music really loud and dance around till you’re sweating and your heart is pounding hard and fast. Show your heart and mind and body you are still alive!!! Movement is healing.⁣⁣ 🎶🎸🥁🎹🎺🎻🎼

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12) Dive deeply into soul work. 🙏🏻📿Learn to pray, meditate, chant, journal, hike in nature 🌳 and surrender to a higher power. I’ve learned we can do so much but we can’t do it all alone. ⁣Know you are always being guided and supported by the universe… but you’ve gotta learn how to listen and tune into those whispers and signs. ⁣💫🌟✨

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13) Know you came here with a beautiful purpose only YOU can fulfill. We all did. Use this time to reflect and discover what that is. ⁣⁣💕🧘🏻‍♀️💕

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14) Love is sacred and beautiful and it’s a journey, not a destination. 🛣 ❤️ No matter what you see in these pictures or on any social media know that all couples struggle. All couples love, have arguments, make up, compromise and the couples who love each other deeply understand that nothing and no one in this world will ever fulfill them fully until they genuinely love the person they see in the mirror. Respect yourself. Speak up for yourself and the one you love will value you like no one ever did… because you’ve finally learned to value yourself. ⁣⁣

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𝘕𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵. ❤️⁣⁣

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I love you,⁣⁣








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